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Last Christmas my husband gave to me some lovely bath/pampering products which included some bath bombs ... a pack of 5 to be precise. I had a 4 week old baby (and a 2 year old) and we had just been through a very busy few months moving to Melbourne. This gift was his way of encouraging me to look after myself ... it was a really beautiful gift.
Now we have just moved back to Sydney and we are 3 weeks away from Christmas ... I still have 2 bath bombs left! This means in almost 12 months I have only taken 3 baths ... hmmmm ....
I really love a soak in a nice hot bath so why have I had so few? Well, I seem to recall that the few I did take were cut very short by a crying baby deciding that she didn't feel like sleeping after all so they lacked the relaxing vibe I was seeking. Then, I think I fell into the trap of looking at the bath, with the duck slip mat, the bag of bath toys and the baby seat and decided it was all too hard to pull it all out so I would jump under a shower instead.
For me this is more than just about how many baths I have had ... it is a reflection of how little time and energy I really invest in my own self care. I would like to see this change in 2012. I would like to see myself put my own needs above my family a little more often and I would like to be more committed to doing things that make me feel really good.
What about you? Do you have some simple self care things that are absent from life right now? What would it take to change this?
Love to hear from you :)
Linda x
Magificent ideas Amber!
7 Feb 2012, Linda Anderson, www.mumsonthego.com.au
Your article totally resonated with me, Linda! I used to be an avid bath-taker pre-child, yet there just doesn't seem to be the time anymore (as well as the deterrent of the duck non slip bath mat, as you say!). The other week when our shower rose broke and we had to get the plumber in I was forced to have a bath one night (using bath products shoved to the back of the cupboard long ago). After I'd had a luxurious 20 minute soak and was applying coconut-scented moisturiser feeling wonderful, I realised that it had made the world of difference to my state of mind and wondered why it had been so long!
Your article has inspired me! I think it's time to bring back the regular professional pedicures, the brunches for one of a Sunday morning once a month in a local cafe where I get to sit with the whole newspaper and read it uncrumpled for at least an hour, the 20 minutes brisk walks by myself around the neighbourhood. It's those little things that get you out of a rut and put that zing back for sure!
7 Feb 2012, Amber